A title like a pop song. How a real tsunami not only spreads fear and terror, but also love.
They just can’t rest until everything is perfect - hence never. They still find a fly in the ointment, anything they could have done better. And they alwaystake over responsibility themselves. Feelings of guilt permeate their existence. They deliberately ignore statistics that say that around 80% of all things left behind are finally taken care of by themselves. Such a person rarely has fun, there is still some washing up to do, writing a letter, making an appointment - there is always something. If it gets done right away, there is no time for fun, if it is postponed, a guilty conscience will prevent them from enjoying life. The perfectionist doesn’t like the food because they are afraid of spilling.
In short: Such a person needs Pine. Although Dr. Bach, to whom this flower essence originally goes, did not say a word about sexuality, but people who are embarrassed by everything and are shaken by feelings of guilt cannot really relax in bed. Anyway a real perfectionist turns sex into a kind of competitive sport, and that’s where the fun ends in any case. In an emergency, they take doping. Those poor creatures. Pine essence, on the other hand, helps to create serenity and self-respect. A first requirement for enjoyment.
The burden bearer
They behave similarly to the perfectionist, they also cannot relax, care for the family, the company, the employees every day. When everyone has already finished work, the light is still on in the burden bearer’s office. When the whole family is asleep, he (mostly she) is still standing in the kitchen, cleaning up, preparing everything for the next morning. And when they finally go to bed, they are completely overwhelmed by the day’s work, but since their partner is already asleep, it is hard to ignore that in the area of sexuality not much is going on, but maybe that’s better that way.
So, he is not a real connoisseur, the burden bearer who constantly sacrifices himself for others. In such cases, only one thing helps: Oak essence. Oak lets you see what overexploitation you are doing with your strength and when it is time to take a rest and relax.
The stress victim
The stress victim has developed a special pattern: they react to pressure from the outside with tension from the inside. Gnashing of teeth, permanent obstipation, tension headache - they all indicate Dandelion. Stress is a sign of the absolute will to stay in control, especially about things that are so difficult to control. In other words, the emotions. When there is hectic, pressure and stress and you think you can’t afford to just scream or cry (especially if you’re a male). Instead, they try to surpress the pressure by building counter pressure.
A lot of energy is invested in muscle tension, which is no longer available for other purposes. And let’s be honest: what is the use of a sixpack belly if they just can’t relax ... So one might prefer a nice love handle and relax with Dandelion. It is the essence of choice in this case.
The sensible one
Can’t be silly at all. Always have to rationalize. Never play with food. Of course, does not smoke and drink. Is disciplined, sits upright and mostly speaks in the subjunctive (‚so I would in your place ...‘). And has had a sense of humour bypass.
There is no conflict between head and stomach, here the stomach does not seem to exist at all, only the will dominates. These bone-dry people, to whom humor seems a foreign word, who get up to meditate at 3 a.m. on the morning on a holiday and who don’t even ignore the completely unspiritual cream cake, they just don’t notice it, they may have almost everything. Except for one thing: fun in life. Fortunately, there is Rock Water, that can break the stone. It makes the relentless a little more compliant and forgiving.
The closed heart
Ultimately prevents everything that could be fun. Whatever the reason (conscious or unconscious) you have decided to shut yourself off internally, until there is nothing but gray on this earth. Laugh? You heard of it. But do it yourself?
There is a flower essence that brings the little child within to light again. The one that can be so overjoyed, shouts and screams with joy, no matter how improper. Only such a heart is open to falling in love, experiencing and using the power and enthusiasm therein, being able to tear out trees. It’s the Cherry that can do it. Cherry brings the tingling back to everyday gray life.
Cherry pulls us out of lethargy and boredom, it gives us new adventures. You should definitely try it out!